My friend just told me her husband came back from TDY from the Phillipines and cheated on her while he was there..This alone is DEVASTATING probably. To top it off, he says she doesnt give him "afternoon delight" anymore and focuses only on the kids/house so this being the reason why he strayed. I give my husband "surprise sex" at least twice a week when he comes home for lunch or maybe he is playing his PS3 or something. He drives all the way from Torii to Kadena, gotta give him something for it! lol I know after kids, things might change a little and he knows that but he and I both dont quite understand her husbands mentality. What do yall think and do you think he is lying about the reason? 

Her business smells? 

Do not know him or her. Maybe she is a b*tch and he had good reason? We do not know. 

I love lunch time sex! Nothing better than a nooner.... 

Do not know him or her. Maybe she is a b*tch and he had good reason? We do not know Or maybe he is just a cheating/lying BastarD 

"Hey kids, you go watch a movie while daddy and I have some afternoon delight". 

She spends a buttload of money on Coach purses. 

Men can't live without sex. It's a given!! 

"Hey kids, you go watch a movie while daddy and I have some afternoon delight". They aren't supposed to watch? 

She is a very good wife. She honestly is the wife/mother I look up to. Devotes herself fully to her children as well as her husband. Sets out his uniforms (irons them as well), has dinner on the table at 6:45 every night, runs the children back and forth to different school events, never even heard a curse word come out of her mouth. They are both very good people and I find this to be out of character for him..She and I both very confused. 

She is a very good wife. She honestly is the wife/mother I look up to. Devotes herself fully to her children as well as her husband. Sets out his uniforms (irons them as well), has dinner on the table at 6:45 every night, runs the children back and forth to different school events, never even heard a curse word come out of her mouth. They are both very good people and I find this to be out of character for him..She and I both very confused. That's her problem she is too nice :) 

She doesn't give up the butt. 

She is a very good wife. She honestly is the wife/mother I look up to. Devotes herself fully to her children as well as her husband. Sets out his uniforms (irons them as well), has dinner on the table at 6:45 every night, runs the children back and forth to different school events, never even heard a curse word come out of her mouth. They are both very good people and I find this to be out of character for him..She and I both very confused. Maybe he found the Filipino woman exotic and persuasive. Cheating happens a lot when the man TDYs to certain places like the Philippines, Malaysia, Thailand, Korea etcetc 

It is just that one thing that is lacking! 

It is just that one thing that is lacking! Yep no rockin sex life! 

Well, she says that lately, the sex has been wierd. He wants to choke her, ummmm do anal (even though she almost screams in pain he keeps going) and has talked of having a female come into the group. She says it feels like she is having sex with another person because it seems that he changed overnight into someone she doesnt know. 

She is a very good wife. She honestly is the wife/mother I look up to. Devotes herself fully to her children as well as her husband. Sets out his uniforms (irons them as well), has dinner on the table at 6:45 every night, runs the children back and forth to different school events, never even heard a curse word come out of her mouth. They are both very good people and I find this to be out of character for him..She and I both very confused.  Maybe she does too much. A man needs to feel like king of his castle (even though we know us women run things). From what you say she sounds like an over bearing mommy ti him not a loving passionate wife. 

ummmm do anal (even though she almost screams in pain he keeps going) What did I say? I call them like I see them! 

Well, she says that lately, the sex has been wierd. He wants to choke her, ummmm do anal (even though she almost screams in pain he keeps going) and has talked of having a female come into the group. She says it feels like she is having sex with another person because it seems that he changed overnight into someone she doesnt know. Whoa okay that changes everything. WEIRD! 

She is a very good wife. She honestly is the wife/mother I look up to. Devotes herself fully to her children as well as her husband. Sets out his uniforms (irons them as well), has dinner on the table at 6:45 every night, runs the children back and forth to different school events, never even heard a curse word come out of her mouth. They are both very good people and I find this to be out of character for him..She and I both very confused. i think this is the problem i don't know her.. but from what you are saying everyday is the samething.. i can't do that.. my husband would go somewhere also if i did.. i change my hair/get something sexy every chance i get.. it keeps the marriage going.. you really do need to sit down with her as a friend and ask her how her sex life is.. has it change ALOT since she had kids?? if so he might really think something was missing.. and some guys can only hold out for so long.. not saying at all he was right for doing it.. but we are human.. and while he was gone how often did they talk? when they are gone.. they still need things form us.. 

SFC you take it. You see the jokes. use the force!!! 

She sounds all mom and no wife. She wipes his f*cking ARSE! Who the hell cant get his own unform ready? And he makes her iron it?!? thats insane! I admit, when Joe and I first got together, I was new to being a military wife and wanted to set his stuff out and all that before going to bed until one day he said, "babe, they just get dirty at work..Its not a fashion contest so really you dont have to do it. but thank you".. 

Well, she says that lately, the sex has been wierd. He wants to choke her, ummmm do anal (even though she almost screams in pain he keeps going) and has talked of having a female come into the group. She says it feels like she is having sex with another person because it seems that he changed overnight into someone she doesnt know. well f uck over look what i just said.. i didn't read this.. if he was showing signs of this.. then she should have seen it coming.. and i would never let my husband touch me when it hurts!! she needs to stand up for herself!! she may do alot around the house.. does she what to stay with him that is the thing can she handle this.. and he may not have changed he may have just waiting this long to open up to her..this way.. this may really be him.. lol how old is he again? 

Sounds like a dominance issue. 

Well, she says that lately, the sex has been wierd. He wants to choke her, ummmm do anal (even though she almost screams in pain he keeps going) and has talked of having a female come into the group. She says it feels like she is having sex with another person because it seems that he changed overnight into someone she doesnt know Was the person he cheated with a woman or a ladyboy? 

i think this is the problem i don't know her.. but from what you are saying everyday is the samething.. i can't do that.. my husband would go somewhere also if i did.. i change my hair/get something sexy every chance i get.. it keeps the marriage going.. you really do need to sit down with her as a friend and ask her how her sex life is.. has it change ALOT since she had kids?? if so he might really think something was missing.. and some guys can only hold out for so long.. not saying at all he was right for doing it.. but we are human.. and while he was gone how often did they talk? when they are gone.. they still need things form us.. I honestly do not think she is wanting to work it out. He showed his kids a picture of his Philipino whore he met. Im not being mean, this is for real, he met a hooker in the Phillipines and brought a pic home and showed his oldest son and said, "isnt she hot"?!?! The poor child went crying to mommy and told her. 

Butt Sex = No Sex! 

He showed his kids a picture of his Philipino whore he met. Do you have a copy of said picture? Just for refrence of course. Gigity. Back Door Man by The Doors just came on as I was typing this. 

Man the woman he got with in the Philippines must have been one KINKY mofo. 

Back Door Man by The Doors lmao