I told him how when alot of the guys go tdy it's called temporary divorce basically because they effing cheat with hookers and shiit. After he seached the words cheating and tdy, to his astonishment, he was proven wrong. I think he is shocked at how many wives on here, and from what he read one man as well, have been going through this. What do yall have to say about tdy?are yall a little nervous when the hubby goes? Mine leaves today for 4 days to Yokota to climb and jump on Mt. Fujji but I trust him.  

I never worry. I have no reason to and I certainly wouldn't spend my life with someone I couldn't trust. 

I am not worried. I don't think my husband is stupid enough to ruin his family over a fling, because the kids and I would surely be moving to Texas if he did! 

We call them cruise widows. It happens more often than it doesn't usually to the guys/girls condition of the marriage has little to do with it. 

As far as I know, mine hasn't but I also wouldn't discuss it if he did. 

I told him how when alot of the guys go tdy it's called temporary divorce basically because they effing cheat with hookers and shiit. Have you ever been to a Navy club right after a ship gos out on deployment? It's not just the AD people that are cheating. 

Have you ever been to a Navy club right after a ship gos out on deployment? It's not just the AD people that are cheating. I would put the blame equally across both sides. In my short 7 years I have seen 5 people come home from 6 month deployments to wives 4 months pregnant. 

6 month deployments to wives 4 months pregnant. ouch! 

I have seen 5 people come home from 6 month deployments to wives 4 months pregnant. Maybe they were immacualate conceptions. 

I have seen 5 people come home from 6 month deployments to wives 4 months pregnant. Maybe they were immacualate conceptions. The virgin dependent? 

Hey, that doesn't necessarily mean they cheated! They could have gotten pregnant from the phone sex they had with the husband while he was away. (; LoL - I am totally kidding. 

Gawh..the gate is crazy once a ship comes in here. I can guarentee 75% of those men are married. 

Gawh..the gate is crazy once a ship comes in here. I can guarentee 75% of those men are married. Ever been on six month cruise? P*ssy consumes your thoughts after a while. I take care of it by going to a stip club then beating it into submission in my rack. But a lot of dudes buy a girl. 

Ever been on six month cruise? eh..no. My brother was Navy and he told me the stories. My best friend in the states is also Navy and she told me some stories too. She was...eh..the ship whore. Or at least that was the title she gave herself. She would always joke that there were always places to hide in the ships for a quicky. 

Ever been on six month cruise? eh..no. My brother was Navy and he told me the stories. My best friend in the states is also Navy and she told me some stories too. She was...eh..the ship whore. Or at least that was the title she gave herself. She would always joke that there were always places to hide in the ships for a quicky. We had a group of girls that were literally hookers-at-sea. 

We had a group of girls that were literally hookers-at-sea. She was/still a sex feene so she didn't mind..lol. She was doing the men a service while getting herself off too. No harm in that I suppose..lol. 

We had a group of girls that were literally hookers-at-sea. She was/still a sex feene so she didn't mind..lol. She was doing the men a service while getting herself off too. No harm in that I suppose..lol. Sex is against the rules on the boat, they will kick you out and put you on bread and water. Oh, and she was probably a sex fiend, not a feene! 

sex fiend, not a feene! Yeah, that was the word I was looking for. Thanks!! :) This girl didn't care. 

Wow i didn't know all this either! Maybe I am living under a rock? I don't know any navy though so that explains alot I guess. We tend to hang out with just army and air force. I honestly would never say it's just the husbands..never in a million years would I say this. I've been on both sides ofthe fence and am not proud of it at all. But we tens to hear more about the service men than we do the dependants...then again, when my husband and I are out at gate 2 street sometimes I see the women with rings on dancing and making out with men who aren't wearing a ring..notthat that means a whole lot either cause my husband lost his ring down the sink drain so when we go out, we probably get all KINDS of dirty looks!! Lol 

For the record I plowed through my fair share of deployed spouses in my single days. It was awesome! and easy! 

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6 month deployments to wives 4 months pregnant. ouch! now this sux!! i have heard that some men don't even get the time difference on this subject.. i will be 4months pregnant when my husband leave for a 15month deployment and the baby will be 6months old when he gets back.. 

For the record I plowed through my fair share of deployed spouses in my single days That is so romantic. 

I trust mine whenever he goes anywhere. He can't drink (literally), REFUSES to go to the club, and was scared to tell me that he had to go inside of Chi-Chi's on courtesy patrol! I couldn't help it, I laughed so hard when he told me! He really thought I was going to be mad at him! 

where does the "Y" come in in temporarily divorced? 

Krystle: I have no effing clue, I have just heard thise statement many many times before. It is nice seeing alot of women here that trust their men. I like seeing good, strong marriages because to be quite honest with you, it seems that all you hear is the bad shiit. Posts like this where women talk about something funny their husbands did are, in my opinion, so much more interesting to ready than the ones about how their husbands suck so much. I admit, mine sucks sometimes (when he won't pick up his bottle caps off the table or put his dishes in the dishwasher) but for the most part I think he's pretty good and handy to keep around...for now anyways;) lol jk jk 

I trust my husband. He trusts me. My husband is gone for long periods of time each year. TDY or deployed. It's all about trust. 

Mine leaves today for 4 days to Yokota to climb and jump on Mt. Fujji but I trust him. I sure hope so! Not much fooling around you can do while climbing a mountain! 

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