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POLL: Are u or your Spouse Snipped or Tied?

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POLL: Are u or your Spouse Snipped or Tied?

Just curious I am pregnant and this will be our 5th baby, I am getting my tubes tied after I deliver this one and my hubby is getting snipped also. It is a decision we both came to on our own and together and we both agree we are done. SO I am just curious if other have had it done and what was your experience good/bad etc

Both spouses Snipped and Tied Vote
 
 0.0% (0)
Tubes Tied Vote
 
 18.2% (6)
Snipped Vote
 
 15.2% (5)
Neither yet but plan to when we are done Vote
 
 66.7% (22)
Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

Just curious I am pregnant and this will be our 5th baby, I am getting my tubes tied after I deliver this one and my hubby is getting snipped also. It is a decision we both came to on our own and together and we both agree we are done. SO I am just curious if other have had it done and what was your experience good/bad etc 

Krystle --- 11 years ago -

I plan on getting my tubes tied once I'm done having kids. 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

Snipped is another word that needs to be added to preggers, preggo etc.... 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

I am super excited no more BC daily LOL 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

The doc made it sound scarey for the female to have it done and plus, with the birth rate in my family and many failed tubal ligations, we went with the easier approach..got him snipped. 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

I am super excited no more BC daily LOL I love that too!! 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

Snipped is another word that needs to be added to preggers, preggo etc Sorry :) But if it makes u fells better U can call me Preggo if u want it doesn't bother me :) 

SemperFiChic --- 11 years ago -

Tubal Ligation here! 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

Oh, and U in place of you. 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

I am having a C-Section with this one so I told them to tie them, I actually told them to take it all out I am done with it ALL LOL, but they said no not unless I was bleeding out :) 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

Oh, and U in place of you. R u having an emotional needy kind if week? LOL 

Pissy Missy --- 11 years ago -

I had my tubes tied after my last baby. Since I didnt get an epidural I had to wait 6 weeks. It was an easy in and out operation. The scarring is small. My only problem was the pain in my chest afterwards. Since they ahve to fill your stomach with air (or was it some kind of gas , cant remember) it made my chest hurt so bad. Nothing helped it but it eventually went away after a day or so. This was all back home so I have no experience here. Was the best thing I did though. 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

I actually told them to take it all out I am done with it ALL Kind of like you clean out the inside of a turkey at Thanksgiving. 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

R u having an emotional needy kind if week? LOL I just need hugs for some reason today. 

Just another girl --- 11 years ago -

tubes are cut, tied and burnt. no more kids for me. my stupid husband won't get snipped because he wants more kids later 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

no more kids for me. my stupid husband won't get snipped because he wants more kids later I'm confused by this statement..lol. No more kids for you but your husband wants more later? 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

What the heck is he gonna have them with? The family dog? No the cat. 

Just another girl --- 11 years ago -

yes he wants more later.. hes way of thinking is if our marriage doesnt work out and he gets remarried and she wants kids he can have more kids...i got pissed off when he told me that. but yes no more kids for me and he said he wants more later so he doesnt want to get snipped just in case 

Just another girl --- 11 years ago -

What the heck is he gonna have them with? The family dog? i hope its not the family dog because hes a male dog 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

hes way of thinking is if our marriage doesnt work out and he gets remarried and she wants kids he can have more kids... Sounds like quite the gentleman. 

Just another girl --- 11 years ago -

oh yes and our marriage proves that right now 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

See, if I was having a C-section, I would have it done, but since I'm not, we will let the husband go in for an afternoon as opposed to me going in for a couple of days for surgery. Actually if you do it our here, they do it in the office and you are done in about an hour. My friend just had hers done, they burn them out here. She said it wasn't painful, just mild cramping and has No scars at all. Not sure what all the options are but I know it can be done :) I think I would be Chicken $&IT though if I wasn't having the C-section LOL Ps She also went back to work on Monday (she had it done on a Friday) 

Mrs. Taken --- 11 years ago -

hes way of thinking is if our marriage doesnt work out and he gets remarried and she wants kids he can have more kids They actually had us talk about that when we first decided. They said what if the marriage doesn't work out or if a spouse passes away and you remarried, then what. We both had to answer the question for ourselves and as a couple and we both decided that either way we are done. 

Just another girl --- 11 years ago -

That would throw up a huge red flag for me about wondering why you would even stay married to someone who has that way of thinking. If my husband told me that, I would let him know where he can send my child support check. i completely agree with you..thats why i said our marriage shows it.. i've already talked to the legal office about what i need to do to start a separation. 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

My wife back in the day ran the vasectomy clinic at a base. If they had any dude come in under 30 they would make them wait a month before they would even think about doing it. 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

i got pissed off when he told me that. but yes no more kids for me and he said he wants more later so he doesnt want to get snipped just in case That would piss me off too. 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

30 they would make them wait a month before they would even think about doing it. They tried to throw the age crap at us and I was like no..NOW. I have 3 boys and we are done. 

FGIALC --- 11 years ago -

They tried to throw the age crap at us and I was like no..NOW. I have 3 boys and we are done. If you had kids they were more lienient. You would be surprised how many single dudes wanted them. 

Holly --- 11 years ago -

You would be surprised how many single dudes wanted them. If guys don't want to have kids..more power to them for thinking about making it permanent. BUT..I think to they just want an excuse not to use condoms. 

Oki Insanity --- 11 years ago -

If guys don't want to have kids..more power to them for thinking about making it permanent. BUT..I think to they just want an excuse not to use condoms. I totally agree! 

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