If you mess with another woman? Just Curious.. with ROME77 thread... Got me wondering... Would your man be upset if you with another woman...  

I can't see the video for some reason but from what u said, yes, my husband would be pissed. Regardless of it was a woman or a man, if I slept with someone he would not give me permission (same with him) so it would be cheating..every marriage is different though. 

yes....unless he consents I suppose it wouldn't be, but what kind of marriage is that anyways. 

I know.. I know... I think it is too... But I have overheard numerous conversations.. and there are men who dont think it is.. especially if they can watch... 

men are pigs. in the end someone is going to get hurt. someone will feel left out and someone may like it more than the other. someone always gets hurt. 

someone always gets hurt. True.. The Rome77 Thread got me thinkin.. Men can not help it... Just like when you are cleaning or taking care of kids and they crab your boobs.. or thrust behind you.. when you are really into something.. and you just cant get into IT right then.. It amazes me... I think the only thing that distracts mine is a new PS game.. lol.. but agter 48 hrs the newest wears off.. he will be back.. lol 

My husband would love it. End of discussion..lol. 

My husband would love it. End of discussion..lol. Don't hold back....you know you would too. 

you know you would too. That's besides the point..lol. 

and there are men who dont think it is.. especially if they can watch...  Until they realize that they can't join. My husband would definitely be pissed, female or not. Thats just too much fire to play with. What if I decided I liked the girl better than him? Same reason we decided no against threesomes. 

I think if he was able to join he wouldn't think it was cheating. We could never do threesomes, because in the end one of us would get jealous. Now, if I was kissing girls without him we would have a problem. 

Now, if I was kissing girls without him we would have a problem It's all cheating...men on men...women on women....whatever....kissing, fondling, whatever. Once I married that was it. He was the one and only. I lived a wonderful, fun, crazy, adventurous, party filled, single life. I have different priorities now. 

My husband would love it. End of discussion..lol. Mine too, he is a pig 

On MANswers last night they said that bisexuals tend to put out more than straight or lesbian women. Just decided to throw out a fact..lol. 

if you even have to ask if it is cheating, then it most likely is. 

or at least thats the policy i live by. 

ok my husband dated the lis back in high school and he said by the time he met me he was sooooooo done with that seen that he can't stand sharing his girl.. THANK GOD lol because i'm so not that way.. he is the jealous type.. 

I love girls lol But I'm banned from any lezbo contact. 

But I have overheard numerous conversations.. and there are men who dont think it is.. especially if they can watch... my husband keeps saying he doesn't mind. But i'm sure if he ever caught me with a girl, he'd feel differently. 

Cheating is cheating regardless of whether it's with a male or another female. 

Cheating is cheating regardless of whether it's with a male or another female. Yep I agree. I have to say if it was the other way I would be super upset. I think I would be more angry with him if he cheated on me a guy than a girl. Of course I would also be mad if he cheated on me with an ugly chick. Not that he would EVER cheat. He has seen way to much of that and waited to get married till he found the right girl - yeah I am lucky! 

I would be more angry with him if he cheated on me a guy than a girl Yeah I feel you there... Ewww.. 

I would be more angry with him if he cheated on me a guy than a girl Yeah I feel you there... Ewww.. or an animal.....PUKE. Still cheating. LOL. 

So What do you call it if he gets a lap dance and such and gets turned on? 

So What do you call it if he gets a lap dance and such and gets turned on? I call him a man...I may get turned on too. ;) 

But, what was he doing getting a lap dance? Unless I allowed it, but I wouldn't allow it. LOL. 

I am just throwing questions out there.. Maybe he went to a bachlor party or what have you.. 

I don't know if I consider it cheating...tough one, but if I caught my hubby getting a lap dance I would probably be upset. My husband would be furious. I don't know......If the girl was ugly I wouldn't care. LMAO. Really though....If I was there and it just happened I could see it as innocent and if he was turned on I may use that for later tonight and get me some good lov'in. ;) 

Dam n you Lizzie....now i'm in need of some love and my husband is out of town. LOL. 

My husband would love it. End of discussion..lol. Ditto! LOL!