I was totally up for making dinner! I had my chicken boiled, my rice was for and what do I do?? The neasuia (sp?) hits me like THAT and the puke comes a flowin'!! I wanted to have this nice dinner ready for him and I apologized at least 10 times to him and he assured me that dinner does not need to be made and that I need to lay down....But I still feel like a bad wife. Like this pregnancy is a crutch or something and it isn't. Sometimes the medicine works and sometimes it just doesn't and it sucks when it doesn't because I feel handicapped in the sense that I can't move, can't swallow my own spit, can't talk...without gagging and eventually throwing up. I know this will pass (hopefully) but for right now, it sucks big ones!! Lol and it makes me feel like a bad wife:( Just ask me how long it's been since we've had sex!!! Lol  

It'll get better? At least you get a nice crying pooping baby from it :) 

Don't feel like a bad wife. You need to take care of yourself in order to be a good mom and your husband seems to understand that. Just wait until you can hardly bend over haha. You will really feel helpless then. It's all a part of pregnancy and he'll be thankful for all you're going through in order to give him a child. 

Yeah, don't feel bad. If he says it's ok and his concern is for your well being, then he is being sincere. When my wife feels sick and says she doesn't want to make dinner, I completely understand. She apologizes a million times, but there isn't a need for it. Regardless of what some people think, there are some caring and understanding husbands out there and it seems you have one. 

there are some caring and understanding husbands out there and it seems you have one Can you share him? I just want to know what its like... LOL, JK my husband loves me very much! 

Yeah I really really try hard not to blame myself for dinner not being ready and I try extra hard to get over it but jeeeez, sometimes the sickness is a royal pain in my toocus!! Lol He really understands when it comes to me being sick all thr time but what he doesn't understand is the tiredness.. I am pretty much constantly tired for the past 2 weeks to the point where I don't even wanna get out of my pjs!! Lol. In the morning when I take him to work, I am a major crab apple cause I don't wanna be awake. He doesn't quite understand sometimes..Then again, it is second nature for these boys to be up at 4:30...but ooooooo no, not this girl!!! Lol 

Then again, it is second nature for these boys to be up at 4:30...but ooooooo no, not this girl!!! Lol Sh*t I cant pull my a$$ out of bed until around 10. 

Awww Sara, your hubby takes you to Hawaii and says things like, "no matter what happens, we will get our baby however we have to"..that is so totally sweet! That's a family man right there!!!! 

Awww Sara, your hubby takes you to Hawaii and says things like, "no matter what happens, we will get our baby however we have to"..that is so totally sweet! That's a family man right there!!!! I know.. I was only kidding! he loves me and I him, so its all good at the Sassy household! HELL YEA, HAWAII BABY! I cant wait! 

Awww yall deserve that trip. All the trying for babies can suck the life outta you! 

Awww yall deserve that trip. All the trying for babies can suck the life outta you! Yea, I am super excited. We never got a honey moon because my husband deployed shortly after getting married. So I guess this Hawaii will be the make shift honeymoon. 

Ooooo time to break out the sexy lingerie!! Lol I think my worst moment so far during the pregnancy was explaining to his sgt that the reason he was late for work one day was because I had to pull over on 58 to throw up...twice:) lol that has been the worst moment cause I really thought he would get smoked..he didn't but I hate being the butt of the reason for him being late...Which has honestly never happened in our whole relationship. Just that one time.. 

Airborne- being tired is normal, but have you had your iron levels checked recently to make sure you aren't anemic? I would ask your doctor about it if you're really that tired all the time. 

Awww....don't feel bad, but work around your current situation. Make a roast in the oven or something like that. Too easy. Just don't make anything that required a lot of standing....or work....lol. Cook crock pot items. Slap it in the morning and voila. Dinner done at 6. Just some suggestions if you feel like you have to do something. 

We never got a honey moon because my husband deployed shortly after getting married We never took one either. He hung around for about 2 weeks after we got married and then went back up to Grand Forks. I was still in Colorado finishing up my last semester of college. I moved up there in December. (We got married in August). 

Actually I have an appointment tomorrow and will totally mention it to him:) I am doing a pot roast tomorrow in the crock pot and my rice for the casserole was made tonight and since I didn't cook it well then I guess the rice for the pot roast is already made:) so tomorrow will be eeeeeeeasy!!! Yay!! 

I am doing a pot roast tomorrow in the crock pot and my rice for the casserole was made tonight and since I didn't cook it well then I guess the rice for the pot roast is already made:) so tomorrow will be eeeeeeeasy!!! Yay!! Good for you. I commend you. I know the situation you are in and there are too many women out there that use pregnancy as an excuse to not do...well...SH*T. LOL. I hope it gets better for ya. ;) 

There are MUCH worse things you can do... if dinner and sex are what makes you bad wife you need to re-examine things 

There are MUCH worse things you can do... if dinner and sex are what makes you bad wife you need to re-examine things One of her jobs as a wife I'm assuming in her house is ensureing hubby gets fed when he gets home. If this makes her feel bad and she has identified it she can work around it. She has no children and doesn't work. This is her job....taking care of the home front while daddy plays soldier. What's the big deal? 

Girl...I was/am in the same boat as you. Although my morning sickness has mostly gone away, I still have it sometimes...and sex right now...totally out of the question! The motion makes me feel gross and nauseaus. It's terrible. Like you, the medicine only worked part time, but I'm supposed to be a full time wife and mother...my poor daughter. LOL. I'm glad I have such an understanding husband. Hang in there girly, it should get better! 

Worst wife ever. Period. A much needed backhand is in store for you. 

Yeah I'll take the backhand:( lol yep, no kids and sadly the only job I have is in the morning for like an hour or 2 so it's not even a JOB in my opinion so yes I consider my job being to take care of the house and have a good meal ready for when the hunny comes home. It's definitely not something expected of me but I like having it done..not to mention, the more I practice cooking, the more I learn new stuff. I have perfected the crock pot recipes....absolutely nothing to it!! Lol The "morning" sickness in the morning is just hunger..I take my pill, eat an egg sandwich and I am all better. But around noon or 1:00 everyday it hits me hard!! Just absolutely horrible!! I am 10 weeks so I'm hoping in the next few weeks the sickness will go away but if not I'll just keep trying to suck it up:) The sex thing...Hmmmm...I guess I "satisfy" my husband, but it's gotta be in other ways. I just can't take all the rocking and moving and not to mention constant POKING!! Lol. He definitely understands both of these things have come to a bit of a standstill right now, I'm just feeling kinda bad about it.. I think a part of me is really scared that sex after our first child will be different. Like it will feel different to him. So I wanna give him as much as I can NOW before it feels different. Is it true sex feels different for him after the first baby? Bad different? 

Let him fúck your face, I mean, he's probably upset that you're not doing your normal chores. That's the least you can do. For him. 

Let him fúck your face Classy. I am truly amazed that you don't have a special someone to share your life. 

Is it true sex feels different for him after the first baby? Bad different? On that note. I had sex with a woman that had 5 kids. Hmm... it was great. Best sex I've had. I think she was 30... back when I was 24, or something. I don't think it gets worse, well, from a guys perspective. 

Hmmmm, no fuucking my face. Bad gag reflexes right now. I mean, I can right now but not very good effort on my part. I bought him some Playboys so I think he's ok.....for tonight!! lol well it's nice to hear a mans point of view about this..I always wondered if it's really loose afterwards. 

My husband says that it feels no different since before or after I had my daughter...and he still swears the best sex was the pregnant sex...so after your sickness is gone...take advantage! 

True. Forgot about the whole throwing up thing. Titty fúcking then? Guys always like that, course, there is the whole bouncing around thing. How about him doing oral on you? You should have him make you cum without him penetrating you. The whole idea that "it's loose afterwards" doesn't really apply. Well, I should say, it varies. I just remembered this other girl, about 9months after giving birth, was still rather... well, not tight. But, she was crazy, and started doing drugs after her baby-daddy left. Gave her the boot after I found that out. 

To me, sex seems WAY better post baby! 

I don't think you have to worry about it. Like BtwG said. Hmmm, kinda wish I kept in contact with that other chick now that I think about it...